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D'amour Muslim

Code of Conduct

Community Guidelines for D'amour Muslim

Effective Date: June 2, 2025

Built on Islamic Values

D'amour Muslim is a platform rooted in Islamic principles of honesty, modesty, and respect. By using our platform, you agree to uphold these values and treat all members with dignity befitting the sacred nature of marriage.

This Code of Conduct outlines the expected behaviour and community standards for all users of D'amour Muslim. Our platform exists to facilitate meaningful marriage connections within a safe, respectful, and Islamic environment. We expect all members to contribute positively to our community and to use the platform with sincerity and good intentions.

1. Core Principles

Sincerity (Ikhlas)

Use the platform with genuine intention to find a spouse. Do not waste others' time or engage in any activity that is not marriage-focused.

Honesty (Sidq)

Provide accurate and truthful information in your profile. Misrepresentation harms others and goes against Islamic teachings.

Respect (Ihtiram)

Treat all users with respect and dignity, regardless of whether you're interested in them. Every person deserves kind treatment.

Modesty (Haya)

Maintain Islamic standards of modesty in all interactions. Keep conversations appropriate and focused on the purpose of marriage.

2. Profile Guidelines

Your profile is your introduction to potential families. It should accurately represent your child (or yourself) and be created with the intention of facilitating a lawful marriage.

DO

  • Provide accurate personal information
  • Use recent, clear, and modest photos
  • Be honest about your circumstances
  • Describe yourself/your child honestly
  • State genuine preferences respectfully
  • Keep your profile up to date
  • Write in a respectful, professional tone

DON'T

  • Use fake names or identities
  • Upload inappropriate or old photos
  • Lie about age, education, or status
  • Exaggerate or misrepresent facts
  • Include offensive or haram content
  • Create multiple accounts
  • Use the platform for purposes other than marriage

3. Sending Interest Requests

Sending an interest request is the first step in initiating a potential match. This should be done thoughtfully and with genuine interest.

How Requests Work

  • • You can send unlimited requests — there is no cap on pending requests
  • • When you send a request, your profile information (except phone number) is shared with the recipient
  • • The recipient can choose to accept or reject your request
  • • If accepted, both parties can view full profiles and begin chatting
  • • You can cancel a pending request before it's responded to

Expected Behaviour When Sending Requests:

  • Be selective: Review profiles carefully before sending requests. Don't send requests indiscriminately.
  • Be patient: Give recipients time to respond. Don't expect immediate replies.
  • Accept decisions gracefully: If your request is rejected, accept it with grace. Do not attempt to contact the person through other means.
  • Manage your requests: Cancel requests that you no longer wish to pursue rather than letting them sit indefinitely.

4. Responding to Requests

When you receive an interest request, you have the option to accept or reject it. Both responses should be made with consideration and respect.

When Accepting

  • • Your profile information will be shared back with the sender
  • • A chat conversation will be opened
  • • Engage with genuine interest and good intentions
  • • Be prepared to have meaningful conversations about marriage

When Declining

  • • It's perfectly acceptable to decline requests
  • • No explanation is required
  • • Decline promptly rather than leaving requests pending
  • • Be respectful—everyone is someone's child

Revoking Access: After accepting a request, you can revoke access at any time if you feel the connection isn't appropriate. The other party will no longer be able to message you or view your full profile.

5. Communication Guidelines

Once connected, you can communicate through our secure chat system. All conversations should be conducted with Islamic etiquette and the seriousness befitting a marriage discussion.

Appropriate Communication

  • Discuss marriage-related topics
  • Ask about family, values, and deen
  • Share relevant information about yourself
  • Be prompt and courteous in responses
  • Involve wali/family when appropriate
  • Keep conversations halal and purposeful
  • Be clear about your intentions

Prohibited Communication

  • Flirtatious or romantic messages
  • Inappropriate or suggestive content
  • Requests for inappropriate photos
  • Harassment or repeated unwanted contact
  • Rude, offensive, or insulting language
  • Threats or intimidation
  • Spam or promotional content

Privacy Note: Chat conversations may be reviewed by administrators for safety and moderation purposes. This helps us maintain a safe environment for all users.

6. Prohibited Behaviour

The following behaviours are strictly prohibited and will result in immediate account suspension or permanent ban:

Fraud & Deception

  • • Creating fake profiles or impersonation
  • • Using the platform for scams or fraud
  • • Providing deliberately false information
  • • Using stolen photos or identities

Harassment & Abuse

  • • Harassing, stalking, or intimidating users
  • • Sending abusive or threatening messages
  • • Continuing contact after being blocked/rejected
  • • Discriminatory or hateful behaviour

Inappropriate Content

  • • Sharing explicit or inappropriate content
  • • Uploading immodest or revealing photos
  • • Using vulgar or offensive language
  • • Promoting haram activities

Misuse of Platform

  • • Using the platform for dating (not marriage)
  • • Soliciting money from other users
  • • Creating multiple accounts
  • • Commercial use or advertising

7. Privacy & Confidentiality

Protecting the privacy of all users is essential. You must respect others' personal information and maintain confidentiality.

  • Keep information confidential: Do not share other users' profile information, photos, or conversations with third parties without their explicit consent.
  • No screenshots: Do not take or share screenshots of conversations or profiles for purposes other than sharing with your family members involved in the marriage process.
  • Contact information: Do not share phone numbers or contact details obtained through the platform publicly or with others.
  • Respect boundaries: If someone declines to share certain information, respect their decision.

8. Family Involvement

D'amour Muslim is designed with family involvement in mind. Profiles are typically created by parents or guardians on behalf of their children, ensuring that the marriage process is conducted in a halal manner with proper family oversight.

Guidelines for Family Involvement

  • • Profiles should only be created by parents/guardians with the knowledge and consent of their child
  • • The wali (guardian) should be involved in communications when appropriate
  • • Important decisions should involve the family, not just the individuals
  • • Maintain transparency with your family throughout the process
  • • Ensure any meetings are conducted in a halal, family-supervised manner

9. Reporting Violations

If you encounter any behaviour that violates this Code of Conduct, please report it immediately. Your reports help us maintain a safe community.

How to Report

  1. Email us at [email protected]
  2. Include the username or profile of the person you're reporting
  3. Describe the violation in detail
  4. Attach any relevant evidence (screenshots, if appropriate)

All reports are reviewed by our team. We take all reports seriously and will take appropriate action, which may include warning, suspension, or permanent ban.

10. Consequences of Violations

Violations of this Code of Conduct will result in appropriate action based on the severity of the offence:

Warning

For first-time minor violations

Temporary Suspension

For repeated or moderate violations

Permanent Ban

For severe or repeated violations

Serious violations (fraud, harassment, illegal activity) will result in immediate permanent ban without warning. We may also report illegal activities to relevant authorities.

Our Commitment to You

By maintaining these standards, we aim to create a platform where families can search for suitable marriage matches with peace of mind. Every user plays a role in maintaining this environment.

Marriage is half of our deen, and we take the responsibility of facilitating this sacred institution seriously. We ask that you join us in making D'amour Muslim a respectful, safe, and effective platform for Muslim families.

Agreement to Code of Conduct

By using D'amour Muslim, you agree to abide by this Code of Conduct. We reserve the right to update these guidelines as needed to ensure the safety and integrity of our community. Users will be notified of any significant changes.

Questions About Our Guidelines?

If you have any questions about this Code of Conduct or need clarification on any points, please don't hesitate to contact us.

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